People are funny. Everything about people is funny. We love, we hurt, we laugh and we cry, we give, we take, we fight and then we repeat the cycle all over again.
I was telling a friend that love is a funny thing. Let’s say you were in a relationship with someone, but you fought a lot about stupid things and the relationship was just a constant battle. So, you break up because you just can’t stand each other. Time passes and both of you move on. Then the perfect partner comes along and you love everything about this person. You start a relationship with this person, who treats you so well, does everything you’ve ever wanted out of a relationship and things are just great.
Regardless of how great the relationship is, you can’t help but feel that something is still missing. Perhaps it is the chemistry or excitement you share with someone. You realise that this perfect partner is not what you want and the perfect relationship is not what you want. You have mad, crazy love for the person you fought with in your previous relationship, but you have boring, stagnant love for the person you are currently with.
Now how does this work? Is it Murphy’s Law? Who the hell is Murphy anyway and why does he keep making all these bizarre ‘laws’ as we call it?
Human nature is funny. We get something we’ve always wanted and we still don’t want it. What’s up with that? We want things we can’t have, because that gives us excitement and a thrill! There are many elements I have left out in this post, because this situation is not always the case. It is merely an observation of how funny we can be. Has this ever happened to you?
All the time. Okay not in the relationship sense, but when it comes to making decisions in life. For example, most times I love trying new things,especially food, but on rare occassions I will stick to what I know as I do not want to be disappointed by the new.
ReplyDeleteHow true. Very insightful, Megg.
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